Man Seeks Strap-On Sex
Do you have Strap-On desires? It must be hard to find a strap-on Domme right now, what with having to be quarantined and keep social distancing. I mean, not even my most experienced butt sluts would be able to accommodate a 6-foot long dildo! But I will say many are trying anal play at home safely, with Ms. Delia guiding and training!
I’d say strap-on play is one of the most popular fetishes I have to deal with – next to cock sucking. And both fantasies/fetishes come with their own taboos and their own issues, I mean, how do you tell someone who is close to you, like a girlfriend or a wife? Imagine telling you beloved for the first time that you really crave having your ass filled, that you crave being fucked! So let’s talk about that. I want to help you let your significant other know you are into anal penetration.
Tell Her About Your Strap-On Fantasies
So, what are you going to do? Your options for strap-on play are pretty limited to someone in your household now. The only way to approach it is to be open and honest about what your strap-on fantasies are all about – having a strap-on dildo fill your hungry hole! You have to be willing to tell her what really excites you about it. For some butt sluts, it’s all about the power exchange, and for others, it’s about the humiliation, about the role reversal. In vanilla sex, it’s the woman who gets penetrated, not the man. BUT in a pegging session, it’s exactly the opposite. For others, it’s just about the sensations and how good it that feeling of fullness, the sensation of that cock dragging against your prostate is. So WHY do you want to be pegged?
And I will say this. Maybe start SLOW and discuss anal fingering or other toys. And one easy way to do this is to find some porn with what you like in it, say toys or fingering. Show her and discuss it.
Do Strap-On Fantasies Make Me Gay?
Being open and honest isn’t without its pitfalls. Unfortunately, she may come at you with the “Are you gay?” card, since society has tried to make us believe that men receiving anal sex only do so in gay relationships. Now, that is REALLY NOT true!
Make sure she understands that you don’t want a real cock up there (eh…maybe you do, but that’s s discussion for another time), and tell her how hot you will find her, and how horny you will get seeing her sexy body with that dildo sticking out from its harness on her! You will be running your eyes from her beautiful face, down her chest, and to that cock jutting out proudly from her harness. Let her know how amazing you’ll feel having the soft, silky skin of her belly and hips slamming into your over and over again as she thrusts in and out of you.
Letting her know it’s the mix of her femininity mixed with the power and masculinity of that always hard cock. Let her know you’re still attracted and addicted to your new Femdom Housewife Mistress!
Good luck! Know Ms. Delia is always here to help you live out your kinky fantasies.
Interesting blog and I have experience in that with an ex-gf. She loved using her strap on me. For her it was the sense of power. Ours was a cuckold relationship. and shortly afterwards, every time we were intimate she used her strap on me. Slowly over time the straps got bigger, and bigger to the point where the largest she used on me was 11 inches and rather thick. Oddly enuff, I noticed that I never actually achieved an erection unless she used her strap on me. I think she wanted to break me, which she did.
Thanks, Martin for this comment!
I agree I think your ex DID strap-on train you and also she broke you. I bet you still can not get an erection without penetration!
Ms. Delia
Yes , youre right. Years later, I still cannot get an erection without being penetrated. She ruined me .
A six foot long dildo? Absolutely hilarious Ms. Delia! What a mental image. I must confess however, that my first experience with strap on play it certainly felt like my mistress was wielding an instrument that large as she deflowered me!
Fortunately I didn’t let that deter me continuing with this activity and a whole new world opened up!
Thanks for the update, Martin!
It is amazing how a Domme’s training sticks!
Ms. Delia
Yes, davey!
Anal play and strapons are a whole new world of kink and sensations!
Ms. Delia
No problem as your blog got my attention. Later on , I had a date with another lady. When we got to my place to get intimate, she left pretty quickly. I COULD not get it up at all.
Oh Mistress, You KNOW what i like,… want, …Need, …CRAVE, and yearn for. Over the years You have been such a patient teacher in turning me into Your little butt slut. Thank You for this post and giving me the chance to flash back to so many wonderful times when You have claimed me with Your strap on, impaled me on Your energy cock, and pounded Your energetic essence deep inside me, filling me completely.
For me, i think it is mostly the power exchange that turns me on about pegging. Being able to reverse roles and have You dominate me in such a debaucherous manner makes my head swoon and my body convulse on the wild roller coaster of implosions and ecstasy. There is something so sexy for me about being seduced by a beautiful woman and submitting to Her in such a complete manner that makes me glad today is an odd day, just contemplating this topic. Thanks again for bringing it up and all the precious memories of the past and fantasies of our future it has inspired.
Does not surprise me you could not get it up, Martin!
Ms. Delia
Thank you so much, kneelcc!!!
My favorite part of this awesome comment is “fantasies of our future” YUM! My favorite part of our sessions are the implosions!!! Mmmm
Ms. Delia
I’ve had a huge strap on fantasy for years!! But have never had the pleasure!
Oh I do hope one day you do feel a strap-on!!!
Ms. Delia
My most treasured sexual memories involve strap-on play, including the one time I got a handsfree prostate orgasm.
But the reason I’m here is that I’ve just thought of something to say that might help persuade the better half to try pegging:
“You know how I often thrust my tongue inside you? I want to share the feeling you get. I want to feel your tongue across my p-spot, but it’s too far inside me. Still, there’s this toy we can use as a substitute for your tongue, and then you can hear me moan the way you do..”
So nicely written!
Very sexy thoughts teabag!