Man Seeks Strap-On Sex

Do you have Strap-On desires? It must be hard to find a strap-on Domme right now, what with having to be quarantined and keep social distancing.  I mean, not even my most experienced butt sluts would be able to accommodate a 6-foot long dildo!  But I will say many are trying anal play at home safely, with Ms. Delia guiding and training!

I’d say strap-on play is one of the most popular fetishes I have to deal with – next to cock sucking.  And both fantasies/fetishes come with their own taboos and their own issues,  I mean, how do you tell someone who is close to you, like a girlfriend or a wife? Imagine telling you beloved for the first time that you really crave having your ass filled, that you crave being fucked!  So let’s talk about that. I want to help you let your significant other know you are into anal penetration.

Tell Her About Your Strap-On Fantasies

DeliaStrapOnSo, what are you going to do?  Your options for strap-on play are pretty limited to someone in your household now.  The only way to approach it is to be open and honest about what your strap-on fantasies are all about – having a strap-on dildo fill your hungry hole!  You have to be willing to tell her what really excites you about it.  For some butt sluts, it’s all about the power exchange, and for others, it’s about the humiliation, about the role reversal.  In vanilla sex, it’s the woman who gets penetrated, not the man. BUT in a pegging session, it’s exactly the opposite.  For others, it’s just about the sensations and how good it that feeling of fullness, the sensation of that cock dragging against your prostate is. So WHY do you want to be pegged?

And I will say this. Maybe start SLOW and discuss anal fingering or other toys. And one easy way to do this is to find some porn with what you like in it, say toys or fingering. Show her and discuss it.

Do Strap-On Fantasies Make Me Gay?

Being open and honest isn’t without its pitfalls.  Unfortunately, she may come at you with the “Are you gay?” card, since society has tried to make us believe that men receiving anal sex only do so in gay relationships. Now, that is REALLY NOT true!

Make sure she understands that you don’t want a real cock up there (eh…maybe you do, but that’s s discussion for another time), and tell her how hot you will find her, and how horny you will get seeing her sexy body with that dildo sticking out from its harness on her! You will be running your eyes from her beautiful face, down her chest, and to that cock jutting out proudly from her harness.  Let her know how amazing you’ll feel having the soft, silky skin of her belly and hips slamming into your over and over again as she thrusts in and out of you.

Letting her know it’s the mix of her femininity mixed with the power and masculinity of that always hard cock. Let her know you’re still attracted and addicted to your new Femdom Housewife Mistress!

Good luck! Know Ms. Delia is always here to help you live out your kinky fantasies.