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Testing Limits

I’m not talking here about pushing limits.  What I’m saying is that every submissive will try to test the limits of a Mistress’ Rule.  As a Femdom, one of my responsibilities is to never let him get away with anything.  A Domme has to be firm and consistent.  IF your Phone Sex Mistress says no touching your cock and certainly no cumming unless you’re on a call with her and you disobey?  Then she must punish you.  Remember, part of BDSM is Discipline.

Physical Pain Alone Cannot Satisfy A Submissive

Special rule apply for masochists and pain sluts, obviously.  Nothing gets my sadistic side out like a pain slut who can take out everything I deliver and moans and leaks throughout it, reveling in the pleasure of the pain I’m giving him.  Pain sluts are few and far between though.   Most submissives need a mixture of pain and pleasure – not pain as pleasure

The More Aroused Your Submissive Is, The More Pain He Can Take

I can’t tell you how many submissives I’ve had who tell me “I’m not into pain,” but, get their cock’s hard and dripping, and all of the sudden, their taking a blistering spanking!  I don’t even like to call it pain play, or corporal punishment.  I’d rather call it Sensation Play or Impact Play.  With a properly horny and aroused slave, you can push their limits on sensation to areas they didn’t think were possible.  Jack normally isn’t into canings, but if I spend a while stimulating his body – cock, balls, nipple, ass – and begin with floggers, crops and paddle, putting those red stripes on his ass is the perfect ending to a scene!