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Testing Limits
I’m not talking here about pushing limits. What I’m saying is that every submissive will try to test the limits of a Mistress’ Rule. As a Femdom, one of my responsibilities is to never let him get away with anything. A Domme has to be firm and consistent. IF your Phone Sex Mistress says no touching your cock and certainly no cumming unless you’re on a call with her and you disobey? Then she must punish you. Remember, part of BDSM is Discipline.
Physical Pain Alone Cannot Satisfy A Submissive
Special rule apply for masochists and pain sluts, obviously. Nothing gets my sadistic side out like a pain slut who can take out everything I deliver and moans and leaks throughout it, reveling in the pleasure of the pain I’m giving him. Pain sluts are few and far between though. Most submissives need a mixture of pain and pleasure – not pain as pleasure
The More Aroused Your Submissive Is, The More Pain He Can Take
I can’t tell you how many submissives I’ve had who tell me “I’m not into pain,” but, get their cock’s hard and dripping, and all of the sudden, their taking a blistering spanking! I don’t even like to call it pain play, or corporal punishment. I’d rather call it Sensation Play or Impact Play. With a properly horny and aroused slave, you can push their limits on sensation to areas they didn’t think were possible. Jack normally isn’t into canings, but if I spend a while stimulating his body – cock, balls, nipple, ass – and begin with floggers, crops and paddle, putting those red stripes on his ass is the perfect ending to a scene!
Ahhhh, yes… those pain sluts can be a challenge to discipline.
I tend to replace impact/corporal punishment with banishment if a pain slut does not follow instructions properly. I love hearing their whimperings and bargaining to get me to use my hand/a crop/a cane/a flogger/a whip/etc… and not giving them any of them.
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Or, even MORE fun, insist they spank ME! I find that REALLY fucks with their minds. *laughing*
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