The Slave Heart Submissive is full of emotion, devotion, and love. I’d have to say that when I collared Jack, this is probably where he was, and it is probably where he is right now. He came to me as psychological submissive, as he had always had those submissive thoughts and aspects to his personality, but he didn’t really crave the love of any Dommes he had previously submitted to.
Surrendering his Heart to Mistress
He wanted to surrender everything to me, but wasn’t quite ready yet to become my slave, but he desperately craved my love – and I was willing to give it to him. His acts of submission are full of emotion and love. He gives me everything he has and he’s rewarded with my love and trust – oh, and the occasional orgasm! When a submissive surrenders not just his body and mind, he releases his heart and gives that to his Mistress. A Slave Heart submissive now truly belongs completely to his owner, true love, and Mistress.
Loving this Type of Submissive
Oh yes, it is true that there can be deep love in BDSM. With a Slave Heart Submissive, it is important that both the Domme and the sub know what they need. I think it is important that a Mistress never forget how vulnerable and complete this type of submission is, and to treat it with as much nurturing respect as possible. The submissive must remember to not isolate himself, and be open about his feelings, hopes, dreams and desires.
Not only do I think that there can be love in the BDSM dynamic, I think it can be a deeper more meaningful love.
I can not say that I have ever loved a dominant. I have been a slave heart submissive, unfortunately it was all one way.
Oh Forrest,
That actually sucks. Plain and simple! It is very nice to know that you were able to express those feelings to another, though! Being a slave heart submissive can be so very powerful and raw with emotion. Thanks for sharing!
Ms. Delia
Yes, I do think that there can be true love in a BDSM dynamic, Ms. Delia.
I think it’s a bit difficult for me to answer if I am this sort of submissive. Certainly there are aspects that fit, but I think my Mistress’s point of view would give more insight into this.
Thank you for this post, Ms. Delia.
I believe this is the type that is at the deepest root of my submission, that is, when you go beyond arousal and kinky activities, this is really what makes me tick and it is how I was “spotted” as a sub by my first Mistress.
I believe this is the way that i learned to love in general: give all of myself to her and trust that she will guide me to make her the happiest she could be.
I would say it is difficult to be this type since not everyone is able to accept this level of emotional intensity but also because if you have such a bond, it is utterly devastating to lose it.
fursissy!
I am so happy to see you here! I love that what makes you tick is how Mistress found you! You are so correct that this type is so emotionally intense! I feel that too with my slave heart submissive 🙂
Ms. Delia
I would agree!
I know there can be love in BDSM. Why not, right? It is a great and rich dynamic. 🙂
Ms. Delia
The Slave Heart Submissive is full of emotion, devotion, and fear for His Goddesss…That is what i feel when i call you.
I would not dare to love you unless you order me to
Oh binoy!
I do think you are such a humble slave. You certainly could fit into this category! There are more which would suit you as well.
Ms. Delia
You got me exactly right on this topic.
I desperately crave YOUR love; and, wish you would willingly give it to me.
I wish I could earn your love; and, trust.
I would love to feel vulnerable around you.