Psychological Submissive
The psychological submissive may be the classical definition of the submissive. Their submission starts in their mind. Also, they are submissive wherever they are. They may be submissive in their own lives, even when they are not with a Dominant and have a need to submit or surrender to a Dominant.
Psychological Submission
These types of submissives have a genuine need to serve in any way they can, and they love, even crave, the exchange of power and giving up control. They want the Dominant to determine the direction of the relationship, and they are usually very willing to engage in activities that might not necessarily please them, but are things that bring pleasure to the Dominant. Not all psychological submissives are chastity slaves, but, in my experience, all chastity slaves are psychological slaves. It’s also my opinion that submissives that identify themselves as having lifelong submissive feelings are psychological submissives.
I have to say this would be the closest to me, at least in the working world any way.
Mistress Delia, I’m so confused! Am I a Psychological Submissive? I feel the need to find out or to know!
Again, I not sure if this is really a fit for me, Ms. Delia.
I’m have been beginning to think that I am not actually submissive, it’s just that sexy women make me feel submissive, which would exclude me from this.
But then one particularly sexy woman has had complete control over my orgasms for well over a year now, which would then seem to include me in this!
Delia, that I think describes me to a T.
What’s weird, I don’t know if it is just me or if it is common, but in situations where I can’t be submissive I often act badly. For example, when someone is clearly trying to take advantage of me in a way that I can not just shrug it off and let it go, I get irrational and lose control and sometimes do and say things I immediately regret and I know I shouldn’t because such demonstrations seem to only fuel the antagonist – but I can’t help myself.
I’ve been thinking about why and I think part of it is because in those situations, I am being forced to be outside my element as I can’t let my submissive tendencies take over, and being outside my element is difficult for me to psychologically handle.
In many respects that’s why I crave a mistress because I won’t be outside my element, I hope this doesn’t sound wimpy but I will have a strong woman to be the one who stands up for me when someone does try to take advantage beyond what I can allow, and so I won’t have to be outside my element and can keep my cool.
Does that make any sense?
GODDESS, I would say i can be part of this Group may be not completely….What Say ???
slave binoy,
I think part of you is this part. I think you can be psychologically submissive.
Ms. Delia
Oh Alice!
That makes more sense than you know. In places where you can’t within your own element and be/feel submissive, of course you will act out and feel that strain and stress.
Strong women can help you to keep your cool.
Ms. Delia
Keep reading, peterteasetoy.
I think a part of you is very submissive. As you noted, one amazing and sexy woman has controlled you for over a year now.
🙂 Ms. Delia
vanessa –
I think a part of you certainly is. We can explore for sure 🙂
Ms. Delia
That is cool to know, forrest!
I am really enjoying putting out this series. There are so many types of dominants and submissives, that exploring them can be kind of exciting!
Ms. Delia
Yes GODDESS…But only to a Sexy Lady with an Awesome Voice like You…Or shd i say JUST YOU…
Yes I will, Ms. Delia!
I’m thinking that it might be the case that ‘submissive’ is not my normal day to day default position but it is something that is triggered, and triggered strongly, by smart, sexy, confident women
Oh yes, peterteasetoy!
A woman has ways that you may not be aware of… 🙂 I think it is sexy that you are triggered by that.
Ms. Delia
Ohh slave binoy!
Thank you for the compliment on my voice! I do appreciate that. Perhaps I sound like I do because of the patheticness you give me to work with. Maybe…
Ms. Delia
I think it’s the power of her sexuality focused on me that is the trigger, Ms. Delia.
That power…yes, it can be such a trigger, peter.
I think we are narrowing it down for you. 🙂
Ms. Delia
I have a genuine need to serve in anyway I can; and, crave the exchange of power.
I am a lot like Jack!
That is excellent!!!!! 🙂 That genuine need is so wonderful, Adam!
I am glad You think so.
I couldn’t agree more with You about that genuine need is so wonderful.
I have looked at some of Your pictures; and, I can’t believe how exquisite You look with Your strong body. I have always had an extreme weakness for women built like You!
Thanks, Adam!
You are correct submission IS a true need, and I approve of your weakness!!
You are very welcome.
I am glad You approve of my weakness!
I have still been looking for a mistress that it feel like I have a strong connection with.
I hope You still feel the same.