Bedroom Submissive by Angr

A Bedroom Submissive

In October I wrote about your submissive journey and got so many positive responses. One stood out. Over six years, I have had the pleasure of molding one submissive, and guiding him on his journey. What started out as a blog comment, with his permission is being posted here as a blog.

I feel that every submissive goes on a wonderful journey, and I hope you are inspired to continue yours!

A Submissive Journey

Submissive Bottom by geier

Are You on a Submissive Journey?

i know when i started in BDSM, i had many preconceived and stereotypical notions of what a D/s relationship should be like: Dungeons and Leather; whips, paddles and strap-ons; attending to all Mistress’ personal and household needs, usually naked, except for my collar. While i think that would be very fun for a while, i think too much of any good thing would become monotonous drudgery over time.

i now know the key is finding a Mistress who is as versatile in Her kinks as i am; comfortable to play anywhere along the spectrum of the kink continuum, from sensuous romantic on a date, to a demanding dominatrix in the dungeon; depending upon Her mood. i love availing myself for Mistress’ pleasure however She chooses to use me. i find i appreciate being able to share my thoughts and ideas freely with my Mistress far more satisfying than being a silent servant.

i find mutual trust and respect essential between both partners in order to play safe, and to keep forward momentum in the relationship.

A Submissive Journey Does Not End

Submissive by Tudor from Guelph, Ontario, Canada

The True & Real Submissive

i also know the journey is perpetual, we must learn and try new things to keep moving forward, yet it is often so much fun to go back and revisit some of the wonderful experiences and friends from the past.

i am truly on a wonderful D/s journey and so fortunate to have such a wonderful captain at the helm of my “Space”ship and for permitting me to provide lift under Her ailerons so She can soar as high into Her Domme’ space as She chooses. This, in turn leads to equal, if not greater, depths of submersion into my blissful abyss of subspace. i am truly blessed to have such a wonderful Mistress/owner.to help mold me into the best subbie i can be to meet both our needs.

 

I think this is a wonderful description of one submissive’s growth and change in the D/s dynamic. I would love to hear your story too!