In October I wrote about your submissive journey and got so many positive responses. One stood out. Over six years, I have had the pleasure of molding one submissive, and guiding him on his journey. What started out as a blog comment, with his permission is being posted here as a blog.
I feel that every submissive goes on a wonderful journey, and I hope you are inspired to continue yours!
A Submissive Journey
i know when i started in BDSM, i had many preconceived and stereotypical notions of what a D/s relationship should be like: Dungeons and Leather; whips, paddles and strap-ons; attending to all Mistress’ personal and household needs, usually naked, except for my collar. While i think that would be very fun for a while, i think too much of any good thing would become monotonous drudgery over time.
i now know the key is finding a Mistress who is as versatile in Her kinks as i am; comfortable to play anywhere along the spectrum of the kink continuum, from sensuous romantic on a date, to a demanding dominatrix in the dungeon; depending upon Her mood. i love availing myself for Mistress’ pleasure however She chooses to use me. i find i appreciate being able to share my thoughts and ideas freely with my Mistress far more satisfying than being a silent servant.
i find mutual trust and respect essential between both partners in order to play safe, and to keep forward momentum in the relationship.
A Submissive Journey Does Not End
i also know the journey is perpetual, we must learn and try new things to keep moving forward, yet it is often so much fun to go back and revisit some of the wonderful experiences and friends from the past.
i am truly on a wonderful D/s journey and so fortunate to have such a wonderful captain at the helm of my “Space”ship and for permitting me to provide lift under Her ailerons so She can soar as high into Her Domme’ space as She chooses. This, in turn leads to equal, if not greater, depths of submersion into my blissful abyss of subspace. i am truly blessed to have such a wonderful Mistress/owner.to help mold me into the best subbie i can be to meet both our needs.
I think this is a wonderful description of one submissive’s growth and change in the D/s dynamic. I would love to hear your story too!
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You know what I thought while reading that blog post? I thought about your blog name … part of this is for the submissive to BEG FOR MISTRESS ! Oh yeah oh yeah! I love this! Isn’t that part of power exchange? Delightful submissive energy going from the sub to Mistress. THIS is what the energy exchange or power exchange is all about and thrilling to BOTH parties – Mistress AND submissive.
Ms. Delia, I had the wonderful opportunity to play with your amazing submissive this morning and sie sent me here to see what sie wrote for you. What a gift sie is! I felt SO honored to spend some time with hir. You are certainly a fantastic Owner/Mistress to have guided hir through so many years and stages of growth. I am truly impressed.
I told hir sie could teach others about TRUE submission!
How great you both found each other!
It is so fascinating to read about someone discovering themselves. I’m so glad you posted this for everyone to read, Miss Delia. It’s definitely an opportunity for others to see just how rewarding it can be to learn about themselves and progress in the kind of submissive journey that is possible. Glad I caught this!
It’s always wonderful to read stories like these. A D/s relationship is indeed a special one. And it’s great when two people form a lasting bond. I think it’s also important for people to remember that it also takes time and experimentation to find the right fit, just as in vanilla relationships. It sounds like this sub in particular has found what he is looking for though, and that warms my naughty heart.
This is a great story about growth within a D/s relationship. I find it refreshing that a sub relishes the idea of communicating rather that being silent. When there is a good exchange of ideas between mistress and sub, the bond really does become stronger.