When A Submissive Misbehaves

When one of my subs misbehaves, I can punish them in a number of ways.  I can spank them, or ignore them.  I can lock them in chastity.  Or, I can do what I do to this slave…and ground them. Read this report from a grounded submissive.

Sometimes I stumble and fall as a submissive, not because the task that Mistress set for me was too hard or pushed my boundaries too far but because I the submissive have my own flaws that I’m unable or unwilling to admit to myself. These are the things that make being a submissive hardest in my humble opinion because these are hard truths that can only be fleshed out and dealt with head on.  When at some inevitable point in my training or even more so my life these truths or flaws will win at some point and I’m then faced with decisions. I can either lie to my Mistress and keep moving forward or I can do the hard thing and tell her the truth at the first available moment that is presented to me.

Lying to your Mistress is one way to make sure you are not pleasing your Mistress.

Never Lie To Mistress

Trust me, telling Mistress the truth and dealing with Her consequences is much easier than lying first and then fessing up. When the time does come to face these flaws with my Mistress’ help, it is actually more rewarding that punishing believe it or not. Mistress helps to guide me down the right path so that I can rebuild a better me my way, not some robotic zombie sub that does her bidding without thought. That being said though it is the most humiliating thing I can imagine to have to admit all my shortcomings to Mistress. Being a slutty panty wearing cock stroking virgin for her and a handful of other Mistresses is the easier part of the whole ordeal for me. Having to bare my soul and expose my flaws is the hard part. However Mistress might be extraordinarily disappointed in my actions or what thoughts lead to said actions but she never gets angry and always guides.

There’s no point in getting angry.  Submissives are people, and people make mistakes.

How To Ground A Slave

But how is Mistress to punish such an unruly disobedient sub? She doesn’t, she “grounds” me. Now obviously she can’t tell me to go to my room with no dinner and think about what I did but she can do the next best thing.  After about a half hour or so of Skyping, I had riddled off a list of things I wanted to continue while away from her and she promptly answered NO to each request. She told me that I couldn’t stroke, wear my panties, or do anything else kinky until I had made and adhered to a plan that would hopefully keep me from committing the same transgressions that had landed me in this predicament in the first place. She supports my self-reflection as the best path forward to find the solution to my problem because lets face it, the perpetrator is usually the one with the best and often easiest solution to their problem and most often than not just needs a little guidance from someone who is kind, caring and supportive just like Mistress Delia.

Now, “grounding” a slave doesn’t only restrict their kinky activities.  “Grounding” a slave also means giving them the discipline to perform well as a submissive.