What Makes Pain Erotic?

There are a few reasons that you may find pain erotic. Often pain is the true goal. What really is being craved is a true submission of power, a power exchange from the man to his Mistress. What a man like you craves is a hardcore Femdom Mistress experienced in the arts of control; your control. You want her to decide what you feel, hear, see, touch, taste, and completely experience in a session. This lack of control allows the body and mind to connect in a way they usually do not.

A Pain Mistress Understands Your Craving

Pain is often craved because every person has a natural response level to stress or pain.  Not everyone is a pain slut. Each person wants or needs different levels. When that level is low, the body cries out for what it needs. The brain then interprets pain almost the same way it does empathy and kindness and sends out chemicals and hormones to improve the immune system, stabilize brain chemicals, and create a feeling of well-being. We Mistresses understand how to work with this amazing process.

Pain Can Become Pleasure

The truth is the brain often perceives pain and pleasure the same way. So all your life when you heard about the fine line between pleasure and pain, scientific research was backing that. So your fantasies about a hardcore Pain Mistress are very normal and in keeping with the balance your body and brain strive to achieve. A spanking may once have caused sexual excitement, and now is forever imprinted in your brain as a way of sexual relief