by Delia | Jul 24, 2015 | BDSM Lifestyle, discipline, Punishment, Total Power Exchange, Uncategorized
Discipline And Punishment Are Not The Same Things The D in BDSM usually stands for Discipline. I get a lot of calls where the sub tells me that want to be punished, but what they really want is discipline. Discipline and punishment are two totally different things in...
by Delia | Jul 17, 2015 | BDSM Lifestyle, femdom, Real Time Submissive
One of the important things about the Femdom/submissive dynamic is the respect you give to your Mistress. One of the ways to show respect and that you value her and her time is your manners. These are some pet peeves of mine and fellow Mistresses that are important to...
by Delia | Jul 10, 2015 | BDSM Lifestyle, RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink, Safe Sane Consensual, Total Power Exchange
Safe, Sand and Consensual is a well known acronym in BDSM. SSC means that both Domme and sunmissive negotiate a scene, and trust exists between them…at least for the scene. It makes each person free to get fully into the scene and really let go! Safe, Sane And...
by Delia | Jul 8, 2015 | BDSM Lifestyle, Lifestyle Mistress, Real Time Submissive, Total Power Exchange
This week I am in a mood to discuss some of the finer points of BDSM. Domme space is wild! What is it? Think of Domme space as controlled sub space In the past, I have often talked about subspace, and Top space is the Dominant equivalent of that wonderful, blissful...
by Delia | Apr 6, 2015 | BDSM Lifestyle, femdom, Real Time Submissive
First things first – for you strokers in my chastity challenge who didn’t get any jelly beans…guess how many were in my Easter basket? Jack g0t me an even 100! 3+ months of teasing chastity for you! Even A Femdom Needs To Get Away Okay sluts, subs,...
by Delia | Mar 20, 2015 | BDSM Lifestyle, Chastity, Ruined Orgasm, Teased in Chastity
Can You Ruin A Man With Ruined Orgasms? I received a very interesting email the other day: Dear Ms. Delia Do you think you can ruin a man’s orgasms by ruining every single one? Like, if you ruined every orgasm he had, would he, ultimately, not be able to achieve a...
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