Think That Doesn’t Make Sense?
Are you thinking the title of this post is kind of an oxymoron? Like jumbo shrimp? Or military intelligence? I mean, if you’re in chastity, how can you masturbate, right? Isn’t chastity the very definition of the absence of masturbation? It’s not. Yes, chastity can be about denying yourself for long periods of time – or it can be about true cock control, giving over control of your cock – of your pleasure – to a sexy, powerful Mistress.
Why A Chastity Device
What does a chastity device really do? It keeps you from jerking off, silly slut! I want to be in control of your pleasure, and only I should really be giving it to you. So, how do I make sure of that? By locking that cock away, so you can’t stroke it or rub it. I only use it for when I can’t be there, when I can’t supervise my pets. Now, in the short term, keeping you from playing with your dick can make you horny, but if we did it for weeks on end, you’re going to lose that desire. And I like making you horny and desperate.
No Cumming
I don’t necessarily want you to have an orgasm – in fact, I definitely don’t – but I do want you aroused. The key thing is, I want that arousal, that desperation, to be focused on me. Knowing that I am giving it to you, the knowledge that only I can sate your desires is what really makes me hot and wet, and will get me off. I may not let you cum, but in my world of chastity, there will be ample masturbation while I am around – supervised, guided masturbation!
Very well stated in deed Ms Delia! i can surely attest to the fact that You are very skilled at taking wonderful care of Your chastity slaves who yield to You complete control of their cocks. i can attest that You just have that certain knack for building up the intensity of of my yearning for release via so many creative and talented means! You truly are the Queen of Denial, and have led me states of groveling and begging that i never thought possible. 😉 Thanks for everything You have taught me thus far on my journey into chastity, and especially for those few (yet explosive) orgasms at the time of Your choosing, when i’m able to convince You just how badly i want to cum (and teaching me the difference between want and need). 😀
I enjoy another one of your great posts! Being into female domination, I have come to appreciate those periods of time, when I am in chastity, and the other periods of time, when I masturbate. 🙂 Those have become the opposite sides of the coin to my orgasm denial. Since you (and my other mistresses) don’t want me to have any orgasms AT ALL, I am most willing to obey that wish. 🙂 I have learned that it is NOT necessary for me to have an orgasm. It is only necessary to please my mistresses and experience the pleasures of not being allowed to have an orgasm. It has now been 1 year and 3 months for me since my last orgasm. It has become a Tantric experience – and a wonderful one at that!
Oh cum filled balls –
I completely agree with you, and would add that NO man ever NEEDS an orgasm! I say an orgasm is a want not a need! CONGRATULATIONS on 1 year and 3 months without an orgasm!
Tantra gives amazing sexual experiences! I would love to hear more.
Ms. Delia
Oh kneel!
I love that you named me the Queen of Denial!! I LOVE how well you have learned to beg for me. I simply love that!! I am proud of you and how well you have retained EVERYTHING you have been taught. Those lessons were very SEXY ones!
🙂 Ms. Delia