Sub Drop is The Submissive Hangover
You have just had a wonderful session with me. I’ve teased you for hours, brought you to the edge more times than you can count. My strap-on’s been deep inside your ass, and finally, as you laid there, blubbering and begging me to just let you cum, I stroked that cock until it exploded and had you eat up what seemed like a gallon of cum. During our session, you reached that nirvana of SubSpace. Now it’s over, and you’re feeling…empty. That’s Sub Drop, my pet.
What Causes Sub Drop
When I get you to the special feeling of Sub Space, endorphins and all kinds of other great stuff are flowing through your body, awakening all those pleasure centers in your brain. It’s also what lets your body take more. Ever notice how you can take more of a spanking or teasing after a warm-up? You feel fatigued, aches and pains, and worst of all, sadness. You may even have feelings of shame, or like what you did was really, really wrong. It can happen right after the scene is over, or days later. So what can we do to help you through this?
Aftercare Is So Important
With my husband, Jack, this usually happens right after a very intense scene. He’s described it as having to find his way back, and like “falling down the rabbit hole”. I stick close by him and just talk softly to him, tell him what a great submissive he is, and how hot that session just was. He also gets really cold, or maybe that session was just so intense those shivers are orgasmic aftershocks, so I cover him up with a blanket. With other subs, it might not hit until a couple of days later, so I like to make sure to check in with them every couple of days to make sure they’re okay and let them know how much fun I had with them and find out how they’re feeling. See, I’m not a hardcore Mistress ALL the time.
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I have felt it, it is certainly real. For me it is also different than the “drop” from something like a competition. Win or lose there is a sense of achievement and a welcome feeling of, “whew, I can throttle back for a bit before ramping up for the next one.” With sub drop I think it’s more about processing the feelings coupled with the physical drop. As you progress through an intense interaction you don’t have time to stop and think about why or how you take the next step. You know it feels good, or at least right, and you go deeper. When it’s over you start to pull apart the feelings and desires and exhilaration. I have felt it as Dom drop too.
Tops have drop too. Good kink practice mandates that all parties know how to do self care following play. In phone play where the two partners are separated due to technological necessity, that aftercare might also need to be self administered by both the Mistress and the bottom. Finally, for the most extreme scenes that self care means it can last til the fiollowimg morning. Check ins afterward are invaluable.
Would this is involve cuddling with me after a feminization session with you? Also would lipstick kisses on my cheeks cheeks to relax me be part of this?
Thankyou MISTRESS DELIA. Yes i have experienced that not everytime but sometimes sincerly yours beta bottom bitch tedi Dayof a session i am tired want to take a nap sincerly yours beta bottom bitch tedi