Sub Drop is The Submissive Hangover

You have just had a wonderful session with me.  I’ve teased you for hours, brought you to the edge more times than you can count.  My strap-on’s been deep inside your ass, and finally, as you laid there, blubbering and begging me to just let you cum, I stroked that cock until it exploded and had you eat up what seemed like a gallon of cum.  During our session, you reached that nirvana of SubSpace.  Now it’s over, and you’re feeling…empty.  That’s Sub Drop, my pet.

What Causes Sub Drop

When I get you to the special feeling of Sub Space, endorphins and all kinds of other great stuff are flowing through your body, awakening all those pleasure centers in your brain.  It’s also what lets your body take more. Ever notice how you can take more of a spanking or teasing after a warm-up?  You feel fatigued, aches and pains, and worst of all, sadness.  You may even have feelings of shame, or like what you did was really, really wrong.  It can happen right after the scene is over, or days later.  So what can we do to help you through this?

Aftercare Is So Important

With my husband, Jack, this usually happens right after a very intense scene.  He’s described it as having to find his way back, and like “falling down the rabbit hole”.  I stick close by him and just talk softly to him, tell him what a great submissive he is, and how hot that session just was. He also gets really cold, or maybe that session was just so intense those shivers are orgasmic aftershocks, so I cover him up with a blanket.  With other subs, it might not hit until a couple of days later, so I like to make sure to check in with them every couple of days to make sure they’re okay and let them know how much fun I had with them and find out how they’re feeling.  See, I’m not a hardcore Mistress ALL the time.

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