Getting into Subspace

by | Jul 8, 2019 | sub drop, subspace

Discussing subspace Subspace and feel like walking a tightrope. You want to fall into that space so much, but it is scary! Think of Ms. Delia as your guide and safety net. All the instruments of BDSM, be it hardcore or sensual are designed to bring about a floaty,...

Sub Drop Thoughts

by | Apr 19, 2019 | sub drop

Sub Drop is The Submissive Hangover You have just had a wonderful session with me.  I’ve teased you for hours, brought you to the edge more times than you can count.  My strap-on’s been deep inside your ass, and finally, as you laid there, blubbering and begging me to...

Aftercare for Submissives

by | Jul 22, 2016 | Aftercare, sub drop

Aftercare for Submissives Aftercare for Submissives MUST Happen After You’ve Been Dominated Last month, I wrote about making a sub drop kit.  Now sometimes, sub drop is inevitable.  It was a really intense scene, or it brings up some emotions you need to process.  I...

Making a Sub Drop Kit

by | Jun 24, 2016 | aftercare, sub drop

Making a Sub Drop Kit You can find ideas for a Sub Drop Kit all over the internet. So I will make my suggestions here. A kit SHOULD be a physical thing, a nice bag, piece of luggage, cool tote, backpack, etc. that can be filled with stuff that will help you when you...

What is Emotional Sub Drop?

by | Jun 20, 2016 | aftercare, sub drop

What is Emotional Sub Drop? I have written before about BDSM Terminology like sub drop. I focused especially on looking at the physical changes the body goes through after an intense BDSM Scene. So how is emotional sub drop different? I think that once aftercare is...