Submissives for Mistress
We Play On The Phone
As a Phone Sex Mistress, I take my responsibility as your Mistress very seriously when we play on the phone…or in Sexy Text…or on cam…or on Skype. However, a lot of my callers don’t realize they have responsibilities as well as bottoms, submissives or slaves. Some of my callers have Mistresses they meet in real-time, and your responsibilities are just as important in those relationships as well.
Communication And Negotiation
You need to know what your limits are, and you need to communicate them clearly to your Mistress Any potential submissive who tells me they don’t have any? Well, I know that they really haven’t thought this through. Even Ms. Delia has limits. There are certain things I am not going to do to you – because they’re illegal, because they are highly immoral or because it’s just not something that interests me. If you don’t communicate and negotiate, how can I make our time together fit your fantasies? What if I pull out my cane and start smacking your ass and you’re not a pain slut? Maybe your fantasy has nothing to do with cocksucking – but it’s so hot when it is! – and that’s what I decide you’re going to do? This goes for real time as well. And you need to communicate afterwards as well. Tell your Mistress what was good and what wasn’t. It can even be something that you thought was going to really arouse you, and wasn’t quite as good in reality as it was in your fantasy. I, for one, am not going to be insulted, because that way the next time you’re with me, I can make things even better.
Safety
You and your Top are both responsible for your safety. Meeting someone for the first time – set up a safe call. Even Mistresses do this. I have a Domme friend, and she uses me as her safe call (it’s hot listening to her top someone over the phone. Yeah, I like phone sex too!). And remember, you have safewords for a reason. They aren’t just for real time, you can use them on the phone as well if you have to. If I’ve tied up your cock and balls and they’re starting to go numb? Use that safeword! Blue Balls is an expression, they aren’t really supposed to turn blue.
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