Can one be submissive when he has no Mistress?

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I can help you be a submissive.

Oh yes! For most of your life you have had an inkling that you were more comfortable serving others, and pleasing people, and you have done those behaviors that feel right and comfortable. In adult life through reading and general experience, you have found a name for this, and that name is submissive. At this point, most research wildly on the internet, and become overwhelmed. Well, let me tell you how to be true to your submissive self even when you are not owned by a Mistress or when you are between BDSM relationships, or even just navigating through the scene for the first time.

Serving and Pleasing

On a daily basis you can serve and please! Say you are married, and desperately want your wife to be your Domme, but she is ultra vanilla, and this will never happen. Well, you can still be submissive to your wife. Cook, clean, take over the things she dislikes doing. Get special things for her. Treat her like she is your Queen on a pedestal. Only seek sexual pleasure FROM her, so no unauthorized masturbating. It is easy to submit if you have the right mindset and attitude!

Respect Verses Trust in BDSM

RESPECT must be earned is something I hear all the time, and it makes me cringe! Dominant or submissive, there should always be an undercurrent of respect for other people. As a submissive, you can be true to your needs to please and serve by doing simple things like opening doors, running errands, and of course addressing people properly and politely. In a BDSM scene, you do not have to call every dominant woman Mistress, especially if she is not yours. Generally Ma’am is fine.

What should be earned I TRUST! Trust is the key to every successful BDSM relationship.

I am always happy to answer questions when you are new to the Lifestyle. Never be afraid to ask!