Slave Heart

Your gift of submission is not the key to my heart

Blasphemer!

How many of you are screaming that – or calling me other choice words because I just shouted out that submission isn’t a gift?  I am not saying I don’t like having submissives, I’m not saying I don’t appreciate the submissives who serve me.  I’m just saying you should stop calling it a “gift”.  That’s the entire cornerstone of the dominant/submissive relationship, isn’t it?  The submissive willingly giving a gift of his submission to the dominant.  It’s not really a gift, though, is it?  You do expect something in return, don’t you?

A Mutually Beneficial Relationship

A gift implies that you expect nothing in return.  You may get something, but you don’t expect it.  What we have is a beneficial relationship – you offer me control of you, control of your cock, and in return I top you.  I stroke your cock, I help you dress as the sissy you want to be, I give you advice on how to get your hot wife to cuckold you.  You get to submit to a sexy Goddess like me, and I get to control, tease and torment you.  Each of those things fills needs that we each have.  See?  It’s really not a gift.  You expect something from me in return for giving up control.  And there’s nothing wrong with this.  We are both getting what we want.  I just want you to stop calling it a gift.

You Still Insist It’s A Gift?

Prove it then.  Show me you expect nothing.  The next time you call, I will ignore you.  When you call, I’ll pick up, and then I’ll just put the phone down and go about my business.  If your submission is truly a gift, then you should have no problem just being in my presence – even if I don’t recognize that you’re even there, just on the off chance I might have some use for you.  Maybe I need a bottom to spank, or Jack deserves a blow job, and I just don’t feel like giving it to him.  Then again, perhaps I won’t have found a use for you by the time our time is up.  But it’s okay, your submission is a gift and you didn’t expect anything in return anyway, right?

In all seriousness, I understand the meaning that you’re trying to say when you tell me your submission is a gift.  In my experience, I just think that it’s an overused, cliché phrase. In my opinion neither submission nor dominance are gifts. Both are parts of a …….relationship.