12 Comments

1. Paulina on September 30, 2019 at 8:30 am

   Totally agree with you on all 3!!! Especially with health!!! Thats #1!!! If you aren’t healthy you can’t do anything!!!! Everyone gets mad when I say do but if I can’t take care of myself I can’t take care of anyone else. Saying no will be regular part of my life as I need to take better care of myself especially getting enough sleep along with eating right!!! I’m not going to worry or care what others think anymore!!! I’ve done that to much and it’s caused stress/weight gain:( that stops!!! With my friend selling women’s clothes and wanting me to buy from her all the time I’m going to!!! With this happening she’s taking control of my feminization doing this. It’s whats best and needed for me. She said not to worry about her husband or care what others think anymore and she’s right.

2. Ms Olivia on September 30, 2019 at 12:19 pm

   These are great tips to build sexual confidence. No matter what “flavor” of erotic pleasure — it is always better when the partner has more self confidence. Having self confidence is attractive — and self confidence doesn’t preclude being a fantastic submissive. In fact, I think self confidence helps with being able to effectively communicate needs and desires — that always makes a relationship better!

3. Delia on September 30, 2019 at 9:08 pm

   Thanks, Ms. Olivia!

   I think sexual confidence is just so important!

4. Delia on September 30, 2019 at 9:08 pm

   Thank you so much, Paulina!

5. Mistress Lena on September 30, 2019 at 9:21 pm

   Confidence is paramount when it comes to sex. Some may argue that looks are the most important thing in sexual attraction, but it’s not true. If a man is confident it boosts his attractiveness in a woman’s eyes. As you well know Delia, this is the reason women are not turned on by beta men. Confidence is usually attributed to alpha males. Women get wet for the men who are sure of themselves, especially in the bedroom. I think a man who doesn’t take himself too seriously is sexy too!

6. Delia on September 30, 2019 at 9:24 pm

   Ms. Lena I totally agree!

   I love men who are sure of themselves! Confidence sure does boost attractiveness!

   Ms. Delia

7. Piper on September 30, 2019 at 10:15 pm

   I love the tone of this post, Ms. Delia! Sexual confidence is very important if you want to impress a woman. No matter how fantastic your cock is, if you don’t use it like you know how to please us, we just won’t be nearly as appreciative as we could be!

8. Delia on September 30, 2019 at 10:38 pm

   Ms. Piper, what you say is so true!

   Confident men DO attract women 🙂

   Ms. Delia

9. kneelcc on October 1, 2019 at 12:51 pm

   Thank You Mistress for another educational post. i can attest from my sexessful youth, they are all valid points.

   That shared, i need to thank You for seeing the true me after my world collapsed and helping to restore my confidence as a capable pleasure provider for Mistress.

   It is true also that even alpha males often need a strong Woman to give them an outlet from the stress of having to always be in control in other areas of their world.

   Thanks again for the useful hints for all.

10. Delia on October 1, 2019 at 1:10 pm

    Thank you for the wonderful comment, kneelcc!

    I know many see the true you and he is wonderful!!

    🙂

11. O on October 2, 2019 at 11:35 am

    One thing that I think is nearly always true is that better endowed guys are almost by definition – way more confident. I think those other things matter – being healthy, successful and doing things. But it is hard to just “be confident” when you know you are undersized. You also know that girls will notice (even if they are “gentle” about the issue). I think if you are “big” or at least “average” it is much easier.

12. Delia on October 9, 2019 at 1:14 pm

    I agree, O!

    Confidence is easier when you have the body and cock you like!

    Ms. Delia